There’s no doubt about it-breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there’s one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can’t and shouldn’t be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It’s over for a reason, and deep down inside you [...]
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Posted in Inspirational on Apr 3rd, 2009
Don’t underestimate your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would [...]
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Posted in Inspirational, love on Mar 31st, 2009
Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that [...]
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Posted in Inspirational, friends, houston, lory, love on Mar 5th, 2009
Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a DISTANCE. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of, or at least minimize your time with, draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships/friendships. Observe the relationships [...]
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Posted in Inspirational, dating, debauchery, dreams, friends, lory, poems, prayers, single, thirties on Feb 26th, 2009
A time comes in your life when you finally get it… When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out – ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a [...]
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Posted in Inspirational on Feb 2nd, 2009
Don’t underestimate your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would [...]
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Posted in Inspirational on Jan 6th, 2009
I have sent you my invitation, the note inscribed on the palm of my hand by the fire of living. Don’t jump up and shout, “Yes, this is what I want! Let’s do it!” Just stand up quietly and dance with me. Show me how you follow your deepest desires, spiralling down into the ache [...]
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Posted in Inspirational on Jan 5th, 2009
1.To My Friends Who Are….SINGLE; Love is like a butterfly . The more you chase it , the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy,often it hurts, but love’s only special when you give it to [...]
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Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away Friday night, one of my bff’s dad died suddenly and unexpected. It was very upsetting and devastating. I went and spent all day w/ her Saturday and tried to comfort her and lift her spirits. [...]
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Posted in Inspirational on Dec 31st, 2008
Don’t date because you are desperate. Don’t marry because you are miserable. Don’t have kids because you think your genes are superior. Don’t philander because you think you are irresistible. Don’t associate with people you can’t trust. Don’t cheat. Don’t lie. Don’t pretend. Don’t dictate because you are smarter. Don’t demand because you are [...]
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