There’s no doubt about it-breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there’s one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can’t and shouldn’t be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It’s over for a reason, and deep down inside you [...]
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Posted in dating, single, thirties on Mar 4th, 2008
I was chatting with a friend today about her date last night and how he doesn’t think that she’s over her ex. I told her that it takes about 1/2 the time you were with someone, to get over them. I remember seeing it on Sex and the City when Carrie was trying to get [...]
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Posted in Inspirational, sex, single, thirties on Feb 25th, 2008
You know, love is just like someone waiting for a bus. When the bus comes, you look at it and you say to yourself “eeee…so full…cannot sit down, I’ll wait for the next one.” So you let that bus go and wait for the second bus. Then the second bus comes, you look at it [...]
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Posted in dating, friends, single on Jan 25th, 2008
Cyn and I were @ lunch today discussing relationships and yadda yadda and got on to the subject of “bi-polar relationships.” You know those relationships that are either really good when they are good or really bad when they are bad. There are some people that you can’t just have a medium with. It’s not [...]
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Posted in dating, friends, sex, single, thirties on Jan 22nd, 2008
Most people want the fulfillment of a meaningful relationship, even when it means commitment, sacrifice and a lot of effort. So….I’ve been single for almost 2 years now. It isn’t because I can’t get a boyfriend, but I just wanted to take a personal sabbatical. Especially after my last roller coaster relationship. It’s amazing at [...]
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Posted in Inspirational, poems, sex, single, thirties on Jan 17th, 2008
He wove her into his deceptive web all along knowing that his lies and deceit would eventually suck all of the life out of her. She was like an innocent butterfly fluttering in her own world when all of a sudden she saw a beautiful glittering light…it was the reflection off of one of the [...]
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Posted in dating, sex, single on Jan 17th, 2008
In the middle of the crowd he found me….through all that was going on around us the only thing that mattered for that 20 minutes was him and me. I asked where he was from….he asked where I was from….both of us far from where we both called home. The conversation was light yet [...]
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Posted in Inspirational, single, thirties on Jan 15th, 2008
In your life, you’ll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There’s the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you’re with…and the one [...]
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Whatever happened to Chivalry? Whatever happened to Courting? Whatever happened to Flowers just Because? What happened to calling someone the day you got their number? Whatever happened to calling/texting just because someone is on your mind? Whatever happened to those “story book” romances? Do they exist? Have bad girls ruined the nice guys? Do nice [...]
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Posted in houston, single on Jan 9th, 2008
Awwww Chicago Man (formerly Tampa Man) just sent me the sweetest text….after I told him about Loser….Beauty Queen said I should blog it….so here it is… Well, you’re much better than that bull shyt. Just remember when people try to put you down for not going out with them or acting like you care it’s because they care [...]
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